Daddy's Birthday

Well, today was daddy's birthday. Unfortunately, mommy here didn't have the money or time to do anything special. I feel like a horrible wife, unable to buy anything nice for my husband, and so caught up in the chaos and drama of life that I didn't even get to buy him an ice cream cake, or find babysitting to be able to take him out to lunch or dinner. How horrible is that? I don't care about my birthday, but my husband does care about his!
So, yet another thing to feel guilty about. I still feel guilty that I couldn't throw a decent 3rd birthday party for my son, and my daughter's 1st birthday party wasn't nearly as extravagant as my son's first birthday, and now my husband's birthday has suffered as well. And here I sit, waiting for more work downloads at 10:30pm on a Saturday night, trying to catch up. *sigh* Will it never end?